Attraction comes in several varieties and sizes. It can be difficult to say which is more important. Talking with other single people my age, the consensus seems to be that physical attraction is less important than emotional and intellectual attraction. However, dating apps have taken over as the primary way to meet people and therefore, physical attractiveness tends to be the first thing that gets evaluated. Throughout my life, I have been told quite often that I am not attractive enough. The gentlest souls tell me that I have a pretty face or nice eyes, but that my weight makes me unattractive. There have also been a lot of people that find my weight to be one of the most appealing things about me. When I was in my teens, my father informed me that no man would ever love a fat girl. And he never really did love me. So how was I supposed to know if he was right or wrong. And the boys at school picked on the chubby girl. And magazines and movies showed women that looked much differen